Incontestable taboo: Too young for BDSM
The photo opening this post less than a year ago was in the midst of a scandal in the Russian BDSM community. It was rumoured that a 15-year-old girl is shown on it, accused her Dominant of abusing her.
An anonymous message posted in a popular Russian social network VC.COM said that a well-known Dominant had an affair with an underage girl and started practicing extremely cruel things with her without any prior preparation. It was about anal sex, needles stuck into the genitals, back whipping without force control etc.
Discussion of these accusations very soon came down to the question how correctly and properly it is to admit minors to any BDSM-practices, not necessary containing sex. Unfortunately, opinions on this subject divided. Many women, recalling their early development, said that they had been ready for sexual relations already at the age of 16, and 15, and even 14. Not trying to refute the fact of the early maturing of modern children, I must say that, in my opinion, the world of BDSM must be open for people who already reached age 21.
And here are the reasons.